Learn how to become a brave new you and smart in love.

 

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About Romantic Intelligence

     Why do relationships fail outright or fail to satisfy? One of the major reasons is that we simply don't put in the same energy and creativity that we do for our careers and other life pursuits. As a result, we typically don't cultivate our "romantic intelligence," which is critical for successful relationships.

     In this groundbreaking book, Drs. Mary Valentis and John Valentis present a cohesive framework and practical advice for applying the skills of emotional intelligence to romantic relationships. Their book helps us learn the skills of emotional management, so we can better deal with toxic emotions, avoid impulsive mistakes, and raise our "romantic IQs." As the authors demonstrate, romantically intelligent men and women use their emotions as messengers that enhance, rather than destroy, their relationships. Romantic intelligence provides an essential road map for relationship success.

♥  Romantic Intelligence gets you to approach romantic relationships with the same passion, intelligence, and awareness that you bring to your education, your career, your finances, and your professional life. 

♥ In
Romantic Intelligence  you will learn about all kinds of love--from the kind that drives you crazy with desire but may be nothing more than a fantasy-based obsession to the type of love that engages your whole self with the whole self of your lover.  An epic saga rather than a short story.

Romantic Intelligence profiles the Romantically Intelligent Man and the Romantically Intelligent Woman as well as Pure High IQ Types (people who live and love mostly in their heads) and Those Who Operate Only on emotions (people who love and live by their hearts alone). 

Romantic Intelligence Emotional compatibility is the most significant predictor of relationship success.  If you are thinking about committing to a relationship or you are in a relationship now, Romantic Intelligence's compatibility checklist will help you think about the beliefs, expectations, and lifestyle issues that come up in all romantic relationships.

♥ Real love Isn't a Romance Novel Plot. Unpredictability and the need for
constant maneuvering are the prevailing rules for the relationship road.  
Romantic Intelligence helps you to hang in there, and provides you with the emotional and psychological skills, the staying power, to sustain a mutually satisfying situation.

♥ Even more than the positive emotions, toxic emotions can facilitate
communication and create greater intimacy and deeper connection with your partner. 
Romantic Intelligence teaches you how to accept, face, and and deal with anger, jealousy, resentment and use these emotions to make your relationship grow stronger.

 

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